Thursday, June 30, 2005

Keys to the heart

I am still in a holiday mood and can’t get over the KK trip. What an absolutely fantabulous and extremely enjoyable trip it was. More importantly, it is the people that I miss.

La di da, life goes on.

I have been writing about KK for the last four posts. Thus, I shall not write anymore about KK; it will only stoke my memories and wish I was back there again.

Let’s talk about something else for a change – me.

Warning: This is a self-indulgent post.

I was reading savante’s latest post, Key to my heart. I don’t usually do online tests to find out what personality I am, level of gayness or straightness, do I look good in pink, what animal would I be in my next life, how many pets would I have when I am old, etc.

But my curiousity was piqued. Thus, I decided to take the test.

Furthermore, this has also come up in one of my conversations with LP. And if you take a look at the quote (posted on Monday) above my chatterbox, you will notice that this topic just begs to be written about.

And so, my results say that:

1) You are attracted to good manners and elegance.
2) In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored
3) You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change
4) You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please.
5) Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with.
6) Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.
7) You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred.
8) In this moment, you think of love as something you don't need. You just feel like flirting around and playing right now.

Not unlike savante, it seems to be uncannily accurate. I tried to play around with my answers and check whether similar sounding descriptions come up. They don’t.

You are attracted to good manners and elegance.

Generally, who doesn’t? But I was this close to choosing the other one, You are attracted to those who have a split personality - cold as ice on the outside but hot as fire in the heart.

In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored
Not that far off from the truth. I mean, I would not want to fall into a routine and we take the relationship for granted. A little spark and spice occasionally would definitely be nice.

My second answer would have gotten me this: In love, you feel the most alive when your partner is patient and never willing to give up on you.

I don’t mind that either. In fact, I would like him to be creative, patient and not give up on me. Yup, I want everything. Wouldn't that be great?

You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change
Yeah, he can continue thinking like that, while I have some er … ‘fun activities’ outside. Just kidding. Hey, I am not like that all.

Frankly, I would very much like a boyfriend to be loyal and faithful. Needless to say, I will be too.

But If the unthinkable should happen, if he really can’t keep his pants on, at least be a gentleman. Be unfaithful together. Threesomes (or more) should be more fun, no? In this case, too many cooks do not spoil the soup.

Seriously though, I am a believer in monogamy.

You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please
No surprises here. And of course, if someone has to be a diva, it should be me *grin*

Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with.
Isn’t this part of the monogamy package?

Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.
I couldn’t put it better myself. So any takers out there?

You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred.
Monogamy and the whole works again.

In this moment, you think of love as something you don't need. You just feel like flirting around and playing right now.
Not exactly true, but not untrue either.

Hmmm, this post is beginning to look suspiciously like a personal. I swear, this has turned out to be totally different from what I had in mind.

I suppose I should stop now.

And by the way, the queue starts here. *wink*

3 comments:

Jay said...

"In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored"

Like, duh! "No, I really want a boring lover."

I like monogamy in my boyfriend, but -ahem- it's not so fun to practise myself.

:-p

Derek said...

Jay, I think creative means in everything else too, not just the bedroom.

About the monogamy part, I know how much you have been suffering on this.

Poor thing. *gives sympathetic look*

Yeah, right.

pluboy@takashi said...

huh?