tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post115124050395886412..comments2023-07-01T18:23:22.880+08:00Comments on A leaf from the book of my life: The meaning of love Part IIDerekhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09687038699686567647noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1152029692752736402006-07-05T00:14:00.000+08:002006-07-05T00:14:00.000+08:00qsl, senaiboy, babymic: Thanks a lot. You guys are...qsl, senaiboy, babymic: Thanks a lot. You guys are really supportive.<BR/><BR/><BR/>ceusm: Yeah, LDR can work. I hope mine works too. ;P<BR/><BR/><BR/>espion: Erm, you lost me there.<BR/><BR/><BR/>harvey: Well, you have seen LDRs work. Hopefully, you get to see mine.<BR/><BR/><BR/>mrbunnyban, vincent: Yay CF and me! Thanks! LOL<BR/><BR/><BR/>jushie: Actually, it's from the Kinsey report too. To quote "4% of white males had been exclusively homosexual after the onset of adolescence up to the time of their interviews".<BR/><BR/>The 10% came from those who were predominantly homosexual between 16 and 55. <BR/><BR/><BR/>will: Wise words indeed. Thanks ;P<BR/><BR/><BR/>musang: Thanks musang dear.Derekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09687038699686567647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1151500790358135132006-06-28T21:19:00.000+08:002006-06-28T21:19:00.000+08:00of course you both will stay together for a very l...of course you both will stay together for a very long time.<BR/><BR/>provided that brad pitt will not walks in and steal you away from CF that is.<BR/><BR/>just kidding, :)<BR/><BR/>cheers for both of you!!Musanghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07381200075577016759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1151465056120766172006-06-28T11:24:00.000+08:002006-06-28T11:24:00.000+08:00You've definitely got some challenges ahead of you...You've definitely got some challenges ahead of you, but all relationships do in one form or another. Try to just let things happen and develop as they will without forcing them. No one knows your feelings better than you, so trust them.Willhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05564571723038182117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1151417813678133952006-06-27T22:16:00.000+08:002006-06-27T22:16:00.000+08:00Oh, and where did you get your 4% from? But I do a...Oh, and where did you get your 4% from? But I do agree that the Kinsey report over-estimated the figure. But then again, if you go to Singapore, about every other person is gay. Just go to Orchard on the weekends and you'll see :)Jushiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11735775684643295590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1151414753152188432006-06-27T21:25:00.000+08:002006-06-27T21:25:00.000+08:00YOU CAN DO IT!!!- Vincent :)YOU CAN DO IT!!!<BR/><BR/>- Vincent :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1151411771843354142006-06-27T20:36:00.000+08:002006-06-27T20:36:00.000+08:00Hey, you know we're all cheering for you two. :)Hey, you know we're all cheering for you two. :)MrBunnyBanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03053121175601520470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1151384766000423102006-06-27T13:06:00.000+08:002006-06-27T13:06:00.000+08:00Sigh, I've never been in a relationship and I'm no...Sigh, I've never been in a relationship and I'm not even sure what u should be sure about. I realized that I'm not in the position to give you advice. Love, is indeed a very complicated matter. I'm glad that you're having a stable relationship. Yes, long term relationship can work as long as you keep in touch with each other. My parents were once seperated for a year or two(Mom in UK and Dad in M'sia) but it was this period that they exchanged letters with each other and their love blossoms. I'm sure CF and you will do well too. Good luck and all the best.Harveyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03480766755444777029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1151373203328009092006-06-27T09:53:00.000+08:002006-06-27T09:53:00.000+08:00The improbable is not the impossible.The chances o...The improbable is not the impossible.<BR/><BR/>The chances of wining lottery is also a 1-in-a-many-million thing, but there are always winners in lotteries.<BR/><BR/>There is only so much statistics can tell us. It cannot tell us what will or will not happen, but only their "probabilities", whatever that means.<BR/><BR/>You know if you throw a coin 100 times, the likelihood of you getting a 100 heads in a row is practically non existent.<BR/><BR/>But suppose one day you do indeed get it, how then do you feel?<BR/><BR/>Now when improbable things happen to us, we instinctively do not think that it was due to pure randomness or chance. The instuitive thing is to feel that it was "arranged" for you.<BR/><BR/>Now is that a rational feeling?<BR/><BR/>At the least we CANNOT dismiss the HYPOTHESIS that indeed it is not a random thing.<BR/><BR/>We may not be able to discern the mechanics of how it happened or whether there is an "invisible hand" arranging things for you, but from the prima facie evidence, there is nothing to say that the improbable is all due to just "chance".<BR/><BR/>And then there is the hypothesis that there is God, and God is love itself. So when love happens, when "The One" appears, it was indeed aranged by God, or that love can only happens if there is God.<BR/><BR/>But of course it is an impossibility - probability equals absolutely and certainly zero - to bridge from our experiences, our rationality and from the evidences and testimonies of others, to make that leap that there is indeed God.Espionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17914504174860728587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1151352472695229182006-06-27T04:07:00.000+08:002006-06-27T04:07:00.000+08:00well maturity n trust is the most important factor...well maturity n trust is the most important factor here.. last time my sister n her husband separate for 2 years (one in US one in SG) but still their relationship is still as good as ever.. Now they married! So wish u all the best yah!famezgayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11041978917232824896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1151337547056777212006-06-26T23:59:00.000+08:002006-06-26T23:59:00.000+08:00Someone just told me...Forget the past, forget the...Someone just told me...Forget the past, forget the future, just live in the present. Because its Now that matters.<BR/><BR/>Its not easy, but for me, its a start.<BR/><BR/>I am sure you will do fine =)<BR/><BR/>The only certain thing is uncertainty. I agree.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1151335287426649522006-06-26T23:21:00.000+08:002006-06-26T23:21:00.000+08:00wish u two all the best =)wish u two all the best =)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1151329718561941072006-06-26T21:48:00.000+08:002006-06-26T21:48:00.000+08:00yes. bless you both.yes. bless you both.quicksilverlininghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02936251890451170883noreply@blogger.com