tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post112959377632798537..comments2023-07-01T18:23:22.880+08:00Comments on A leaf from the book of my life: One happy woman - Part IIDerekhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09687038699686567647noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1129691157225887772005-10-19T11:05:00.001+08:002005-10-19T11:05:00.001+08:00I hold the view that all of Nature is a message, i...I hold the view that all of Nature is a message, ie it points to a truth in another realm, mainly the spiritual realm. In other words it is analogical. Now there is no necessity that analogical reasoning is valid, but it is. That in itself tells us yet something else.<BR/><BR/>But for the moment, what do transsexual speak to us? I say it says that gender and sexuality are two different matter. Roughly one is merely physical but the other is spiritual. The latter paradoxically is the more real.<BR/><BR/>And that leads to the 'chemisty' thingy. We often say we cannot define this chemisty, but on the ohter hand we seem to have an 'exclusion list' as to what is not our 'type', and this list is essentially physical attributes, like age, form factor (ie fat or slim), and of course looks and bod.<BR/><BR/>But if say 'chemistry' is undefinable then why are we excluding people based on defined physical attributes?<BR/><BR/>I think this in part is the confusion between physical sex and spiritual sexuality. We seek the latter, in our heart of hearts, unknowingly and unacknowledged perhaps, but we see, feel, touch, taste and insert only the physical, which is immediate, tangible and overwhelms our senses, including our ability to think; and we get deluded and lured away from the genuine thing. But like a mirage, that proverbial oasis is never found and we are always thirsty, hence the promiscuity, of gays as well as straights.<BR/><BR/>So Derek may missed his life's mate who happens to be in a body of 40 years old and certainly with no swim bod, if he continues with his 'checklist' and meet only people of his 'type'.<BR/><BR/>But not a few will say they rather not have a life's mate if it comes in such a package.<BR/><BR/>And thats how complete and effective sex have usurped sexuality.Espionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17914504174860728587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1129691122595128732005-10-19T11:05:00.000+08:002005-10-19T11:05:00.000+08:00Her story appeared on Astro AEC quite sometime ago...Her story appeared on Astro AEC quite sometime ago, but I never watch before. About the blood thing ah...a bit dramatic right? :p<BR/><BR/>Ahem...I knew some transsexual friends at PT, I think they have much more stories to tell :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1129681292699591162005-10-19T08:21:00.000+08:002005-10-19T08:21:00.000+08:00kit: Oh yes, I agree with you about transsexuals b...kit: Oh yes, I agree with you about transsexuals being braver and tougher. They are openly the butt of jokes and discrimination.<BR/><BR/>Sure, do share your thoughts the next time we meet up.<BR/><BR/><BR/>chris: Chris honey, I am sure <I>we</I> are all intrigued. Perhaps I can ask Kit to tell us ... ;P<BR/><BR/> <BR/>legolas: Yup, they have guts alright. Love is a really powerful thing.<BR/><BR/><BR/>weeshiong: Must be his blood lar. Have to show sincerity mar.<BR/><BR/>You think its some animal's blood is it?Derekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09687038699686567647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1129643817385402222005-10-18T21:56:00.000+08:002005-10-18T21:56:00.000+08:00The scary thing is they didn't say whose blood tha...The scary thing is they didn't say <I>whose</I> blood that was!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1129643139160843062005-10-18T21:45:00.000+08:002005-10-18T21:45:00.000+08:00The fiance is definitely not an average person. He...The fiance is definitely not an average person. He's got guts. And the same goes to Jessie as well. The sex-change operation is a difficult process, with higher possibility of failure. She's really brave to attempt that and fortunately, everything goes well for her.<BR/><BR/>Their future might not be easy, but both of them will do fine because of the courage they have.Legolashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06844359578786542287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1129631701702885182005-10-18T18:35:00.000+08:002005-10-18T18:35:00.000+08:00Hmm... I've never looked down on tansexual... alth...Hmm... I've never looked down on tansexual... although I must say I'm truly intrigued on how they would lead their life and all! :)Kenjihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10162077410194026557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1129630920020188512005-10-18T18:22:00.000+08:002005-10-18T18:22:00.000+08:00That's reminded me a transsexual finally got a mar...That's reminded me a transsexual finally got a marriage with a men officially in China quite sometime ago. Though different reactions from the people around them, they managed to overcome the bias and live as what they want to be.<BR/><BR/>Sometime, I think transsexuals are more brave than us, as they cannot hide thier sexuality whereas we can.<BR/><BR/>I'm so happy recognised you for the first time finally, although we went for previous outing before. Btw, I almost 'digested' your blogs, lot's of thinkings in my mind.<BR/><BR/>Haha...share with you in next meet up soon :).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com