tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post112165810139803497..comments2023-07-01T18:23:22.880+08:00Comments on A leaf from the book of my life: It was a gay Sunday Part IDerekhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09687038699686567647noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1137735987497529162006-01-20T13:46:00.000+08:002006-01-20T13:46:00.000+08:00Sorry for being contrary but I've a small note on ...Sorry for being contrary but I've a small note on the 2nd letter: in this case therapy might be the right thing for the poor guy. <BR/><BR/>I'm not saying that gay can be "cured" but in this case, how can you be sure he's really gay? He was seeking love and attention and was abused. At that age, he may have formed a subconscious link between sex (gay in this case) and affection. Be that the case he may not actually be gay at all.<BR/><BR/>Before you jump on me for being anti-gay, please note that I am gay myself. I wasn't abused or molested and I grew up in a perfectly normal and humdrum environment. As such I can be sure that I was born gay. In this poor guys case he may or may not actually be gay, therapy ought to be able to help him work it out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1121671113777076312005-07-18T15:18:00.000+08:002005-07-18T15:18:00.000+08:00Yeah, I totally agree. At least the dad is trying....Yeah, I totally agree. At least the dad is trying.<BR/><BR/>200km isn't that far, but I prefer my boyfriend to be a bit closer to home or a phone call away. <BR/><BR/>And hey, who you calling a kid, uncle Paul? ;PDerekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09687038699686567647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8532639.post-1121663724343406462005-07-18T13:15:00.000+08:002005-07-18T13:15:00.000+08:00I read that paper too - and I found that bit on th...I read that paper too - and I found that bit on the gay boy's father really sweet. He's trying and that's all that matters, isn't it? :) <BR/><BR/>And kid... 200 km isn't all that far away. I have a fast car.<BR/><BR/>Paulsavantehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11298564303784032379noreply@blogger.com